Tag Archives: validation

my ambivalence has its consequences

Posted on July 28, 2012 by

[note: names/locations/etc changed!] i’m out to dinner with two friends who haven’t met each other before tonight.  sarah, whom i’m back in chicago visiting, i haven’t seen in a few years.  jess lives in the same town as i do … Continue reading →

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processing…processing…[dealing with invalidation as an anti-stealth]…processing…processing…

Posted on June 22, 2012 by

i would not be surprised if this is what my face looks like to other people: it’s certainly how i feel. kinda all the time. too many interactions in my life cause my brain to jump into hardcore “processing mode”.  … Continue reading →

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