Monthly Archives: June 2012

it happened again last night; it happens all the time

last night i went to an ithaca diy-style pride event, which was pretty friggen awesome for many, many reasons. i am super glad that other queers are interested in kick-re-starting the lgbtq+ community here.  hopefully much more on this to … Continue reading

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processing…processing…[dealing with invalidation as an anti-stealth]…processing…processing…

i would not be surprised if this is what my face looks like to other people: it’s certainly how i feel. kinda all the time. too many interactions in my life cause my brain to jump into hardcore “processing mode”.  … Continue reading

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seitan lasagna…from scratch

my earliest memories of cooking a lasagna by myself are when i was a kid, and my mom was getting her master’s degree on top of being a full time teacher.  thursdays she would go to class all night and … Continue reading

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kale salad!

alright, after a bit of pestering, here is the [simple yet delicious] kale salad recipe.  i stole the basic idea from the chefs in the SML kitchen last year.  it’s straightforward, delicious, and really good for you.  the lime juice … Continue reading

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letters of rec, part deux [the other writer]

here is the e-mail exchange i had today with the other person who’s writing me letters for this grant application [and, ya know, anything else i apply for over the next like 20 years]: them: So, how do you want … Continue reading

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letters of rec: pronouns and names [quick post about awesomeness]

[sorry, kosmo, this is not a kale salad recipe...i know...i know...just a quick story of awesomeness] i am preparing a grant application that, if funded, would give me money for a postdoc position.  the application needs letters from two folks.  … Continue reading

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